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[kaity10124]

So heres what i need help with I got out of a relationship of 5yrs about 3months ago now and i started seeing this new guy recently and i really like him and he asked me to be his gf i accepted and all we have hung out alot in the past week and everything is great for the most part when we do hang out. he lives in des moines i live in ames just so you know. But it seems like when we are not around eachother he doesnt really text me that much i dont really know if its cause he is busy with work or sleeping and i dont wanna text him alot cause i dont wanna seem like the nagging gf or overly needy so my question is what does this mean when a guy doesnt really text you all that much but says he loves to text and also says that he really likes you when ever you are with them and is always kissing you and holding your hand. And also how do i act in this new relationship i dont wanna screw it up cause i really like this guy alot and i guess its just hard for me since i was so used to always having someone there at all times to only having them there once in a while. PLEASE HELP

[craiggers]

What are you, 12? I understand it feels great to be CONSTANTLY needed, but seriously, in a new relationship, give each other some space. You don't need to spend every waking hour of every day smothering each other. Give each other some space. If you think he needs to check in every second via text message or via phone or in person, I would say you have some serious trust issues. Why did your last relationship not work out? Give the guy a chance before you start nagging him for no reason. All you're going to do is push him away faster. Distance has nothing to do with it. Ames and Des Moines is nothing. I wouldn't worry about it too much. If it doesn't work out, there are always more guys on Craigslist.

[Prison Mike]

put out more

[craiggers]

put out more

Guys do respond well to that. You want more text messages? Send him naked photos of yourself.

[Jobu]

Actually send us naked photos of yourself and we'll decided whether he is worthy. Unless of course you ARE 12, then send them to craiggers.

[Prison Mike]

or MA

[alex]

1) Buy some punctuation
2) Put out
3) ??
4) Profit

Also, according to her datehookup.com profile, she's 24, not 12 -- as her grammar would indicate.

[Reagraham Lincool]

If a guy doesn't text you a lot it's because he doesn't want to talk to you. When he says he likes you, that means he likes putting his penis into your vagina (or the thought of doing so if you're still holding out for Jesus or whatever). Your best bet is to get knocked up before he moves on to someone who doesn't bore him quite so much.

[kaity10124]

No I'm not 12. And I just want to know that he is ok and still breathing that's all and the reason my last relationship did not work was because it was full of mind games and nothing was taken seriously when it needed to be.

[Pluto]

How long has it been since you talked to him?

[kaity10124]

Almost a day and a half

[Pluto]

Have you tried calling him?

[DunMiff/sys]

maybe he can't text cos he's got fat fingers. or no hands. :'(

[craiggers]

No I'm not 12. And I just want to know that he is ok and still breathing that's all and the reason my last relationship did not work was because it was full of mind games and nothing was taken seriously when it needed to be.

alright. How long have you been dating in this new relationship?

[kaity10124]

Been in the new relationship for about 2 weeks now I have called and texted him but nothing and if he don't want anything to do with me he needs to tell me.

[caddymac]

For the first few months of a relationship, he probably loves to text as much as you love watching football.

Also, doing the quick math, if you are 24 now, just got out of a 5 year relationship, and only been dating this dude for 2 weeks, it all adds up to you moving way too freaking fast. You gots to chill.

[kaity10124]

I love football but I get what you mean and I am taing it slow I just wanna know what's up

[craiggers]

2 weeks!? 2 weeks? thats it!? holy crap. alright, don't take this as condescending, but seriously, you need to have some patience. two weeks? really? here's a test. Have you had sex yet? send him a text message one day saying hello or how are you doing or that you want to hang out. If you don't here back don't freak out, but just wait. The next day send him a text that you want to have sex. If you get a message back immediately, he's only in it for the sexual relationship and doesn't give a damn about your feelings. In that case, dump his ass and send caddymac your neked photos. Just sayin.

[Talenos]

This is just a rebound guy anyway, so don't sweat it.

[MarcusAurelius]

[aeiowu]

[THW]

2 weeks!? 2 weeks? thats it!? holy crap. alright, don't take this as condescending, but seriously, you need to have some patience. two weeks? really? here's a test. Have you had sex yet? send him a text message one day saying hello or how are you doing or that you want to hang out. If you don't here back don't freak out, but just wait. The next day send him a text that you want to have sex. If you get a message back immediately, he's only in it for the sexual relationship and doesn't give a damn about your feelings. In that case, dump his ass and send caddymac your neked photos. Just sayin.

this.

Also, maybe the guy doesn't like run on sentences.

[daoist]

Pass 1:

So, here's what i need help with:

I got out of a relationship of 5 years about 3 months ago. I started seeing this new guy recently and i really like him. He asked me to be his girlfriend, I accepted and all.

We have hung out a lot in the past week and everything is great for the most part when we do hang out. (He lives in Des Moines, I live in ames just so you know)

But, it seems like when we are not around each other he doesn't really text me that much. I don't really know if it's because he is busy with work or sleeping. I don't want to text him a lot because I don't want to seem like the nagging girlfrend or overly needy. So my question is, what does this mean when a guy doesnt really text you all that much but says he loves to text and also says that he really likes you when ever you are with them and is always kissing you and holding your hand? And also how do i act in this new relationship? I don't want to screw it up because i really like this guy a lot. I guess it's just hard for me since I was so used to always having someone there at all times rather than only having them there once in a while.

PLEASE HELP!

Pass 2:

I got out of a relationship of 5 years about 3 months ago. I started seeing a new guy recently and I really like him. He asked me to be his girlfriend and I accepted.

We have hung out a lot in the past week and everything is great for the most part when we do hang out.

It seems like when we are not around each other he doesn't really text me that much. I don't really know if it's because he is busy with work or sleeping. He does live in Des Moines and I live in Ames, just so you know.

I don't want to text him a lot because I don't want to seem like the nagging girlfrend or overly needy. So my question is, what does this mean when a guy doesnt text you all that much? He says he loves to text, really likes you, and is always kissing you and holding your hand? And also how should I act in this new relationship? I don't want to screw it up because I really like this guy a lot. It's just hard for me since I am accustomed to always having someone there for me at all times.

Thanks for the help.

Pass 3:

I started seeing a new guy recently and I really like him. We have hung out a lot in the past week and everything is great when we do hang out.

When we are not around each other he doesn't text me often. I don't know if it's because he is busy, sleeping, or what.

I don't want to seem like the nagging girlfrend or overly needy. So my question is, what does this mean when a guy doesnt text you all that much? How should I act in this new relationship? I don't want to screw it up because I really like this guy.

Thanks for the help.

Pass 4:

I don't want to seem like the nagging girlfrend or overly needy, but my new boyfriend doesn't text me often. Why not?

Pass 5:

I am a nagging girlfrend and overly needy.

[Santa]

I've probably sent less text messages in my life than she's sent in a day.

[MarcusAurelius]

Pass 1:

So, here's what i need help with:

I got out of a relationship of 5 years about 3 months ago. I started seeing this new guy recently and i really like him. He asked me to be his girlfriend, I accepted and all.

We have hung out a lot in the past week and everything is great for the most part when we do hang out. (He lives in Des Moines, I live in ames just so you know)

But, it seems like when we are not around each other he doesn't really text me that much. I don't really know if it's because he is busy with work or sleeping. I don't want to text him a lot because I don't want to seem like the nagging girlfrend or overly needy. So my question is, what does this mean when a guy doesnt really text you all that much but says he loves to text and also says that he really likes you when ever you are with them and is always kissing you and holding your hand? And also how do i act in this new relationship? I don't want to screw it up because i really like this guy a lot. I guess it's just hard for me since I was so used to always having someone there at all times rather than only having them there once in a while.

PLEASE HELP!

Pass 2:

I got out of a relationship of 5 years about 3 months ago. I started seeing a new guy recently and I really like him. He asked me to be his girlfriend and I accepted.

We have hung out a lot in the past week and everything is great for the most part when we do hang out.

It seems like when we are not around each other he doesn't really text me that much. I don't really know if it's because he is busy with work or sleeping. He does live in Des Moines and I live in Ames, just so you know.

I don't want to text him a lot because I don't want to seem like the nagging girlfrend or overly needy. So my question is, what does this mean when a guy doesnt text you all that much? He says he loves to text, really likes you, and is always kissing you and holding your hand? And also how should I act in this new relationship? I don't want to screw it up because I really like this guy a lot. It's just hard for me since I am accustomed to always having someone there for me at all times.

Thanks for the help.

Pass 3:

I started seeing a new guy recently and I really like him. We have hung out a lot in the past week and everything is great when we do hang out.

When we are not around each other he doesn't text me often. I don't know if it's because he is busy, sleeping, or what.

I don't want to seem like the nagging girlfrend or overly needy. So my question is, what does this mean when a guy doesnt text you all that much? How should I act in this new relationship? I don't want to screw it up because I really like this guy.

Thanks for the help.

Pass 4:

I don't want to seem like the nagging girlfrend or overly needy, but my new boyfriend doesn't text me often. Why not?

Pass 5:

I am a nagging girlfrend and overly needy.

Pass 6:

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